
Keys to the Kingdom
By Carolyn Tucker
Eating Crow and Humble Pie
Nobody wants to eat crow and humble pie (colloquial expressions for admitting you were wrong). From experience, I’ll tell you that crow tastes better with salt on it. Believers can wrongfully and pridefully think we know everything about running our lives. The Bible defines that as being a self-confident fool. We are not qualified to run anything on our own. “He leads the humble in what is right, and the humble He teaches His way” (Psalm 25:9). I don’t want to disqualify myself from receiving any teaching from my heavenly Father. I need His wise guidance and teaching in my life. In the words of Alan Simpson, “Those who travel the high road of humility are not troubled by heavy traffic.”
“The humble will see their God at work and be glad. Let all who seek God’s help be encouraged” (Psalm 69:32 NLT). My late husband and I used to sing a gospel song entitled, “I Can’t Even Walk Without You Holding My Hand.” The lyrics speak for themselves: “I thought I had done a lot on my own, I thought I could get by, oh, so all alone. I thought of myself as a mighty big man. But I can’t even walk without You holding my hand.”
It’s my job to humble myself. “I humble myself [feeling very insignificant] in the presence of the Lord, and He will exalt me [He will lift me up and make my life significant]” (James 4:10 AMP). If I don’t make the effort to humble myself, God will do it for me, and I don’t want that! So, “I humble myself under the mighty hand of God, and in His good time He will lift me up” (1 Peter 5:6 TLB).
I refuse to get too big for my britches because I want and need God’s schooling in my life everyday. “Pride leads to disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom” (Proverbs 11:2 NLT). Down on our knees is where we learn to stand. That’s where we confess that we can’t even walk without God holding our hand.
When King Solomon was totally devoted and dependent on God, he was the wisest man who ever lived. But before he lived out his earthly life, he forfeited his wisdom for a big bunch of women who turned his heart away from God. You’d think Solomon would’ve had enough wisdom not to get too full of himself. But he did. We must often evaluate ourselves honestly and prayerfully. “And because of God’s gracious gift to me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you should. Instead, be modest in your thinking and judge yourself according to the amount of faith that God has given you” (Romans 12:3 GNT). Scriptures indicate that Solomon humbled himself before he died, but he sure was miserable when he penned the Book of Ecclesiastes.
Christ followers are commanded to trust God for direction. “Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and depart from evil. It will be health to your flesh, and strength to your bones” (Proverbs 3:7-8 NKJV). We are to practice humility, rejecting prideful self-reliance, and have reverential fear and awe of God. Don’t make the mistake of relying on your personal insight instead of asking for God’s guidance and wisdom.
There’s a lot of songs I’d be pleased to have sung at my funeral. But I sure wouldn’t want “I Did It My Way.” At the end of my life, I want to humbly say, “I did it His way.”
The Key: It’s better to humble yourself. If you have to eat crow, just add salt.







